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My Thanksgiving Must Haves

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As I sit here the day before Thanksgiving thinking about the daunting task of food prep before me, I reflect on a conversation I had last night with a dear friend.  We were chatting about the holiday and he asked me what I was cooking for Thanksgiving. After rattling off the huge list of food I was planning to make for my small little family, he looked and me and said something like this… “You don’t have to do all that, there are only four of you.” I replied that I absolutely had to…I didn’t have a good reason, but I had to  because I always had.

What’s on my mind today?

That conversation…I’m thinking about reevaluating my usual practice of cooking as if twenty people were coming when it was only three adults and couple of grandkids max. Usually, I spend the day before Thanksgiving preparing all the desserts and chopping veggies, double checking recipes and ingredients, cleaning the house, basically wasting my blood, sweat and tears trying to make sure everything is ready to go for the big day. What have I done today to prepare??? Bought a pumpkin pie and boiled some eggs.

So why do I work myself to exhaustion every Thanksgiving? I think it is because I have set a standard for myself that is too high.  My family is very large, we are from Utah, and my entire life, every holiday was a huge celebration. I miss my family terribly and the holidays always make me long for our family traditions. For almost twenty years, since moving to Colorado, I’ve been trying to recreate the Thanksgiving experience that I had growing up.

The reality… I haven’t been home for Thanksgiving in years and I don’t even know how my meal can compare to the family feast but the effort is there. I’ve recreated what I remember to be important but I will never make Jello (or Jello salad) and chips and dip are off the list. I have, however, tried to make Thanksgiving something special that my kids, and now grandkids, will appreciate and remember forever.

My usual MUST HAVES for Thanksgiving:

  • Turkey…the entire thing in the past but most recently just the breast
  • Ham…my personal fav!
  • Mashed Potatoes…basic
  • Gravy…also basic
  • Stuffing…the NOT stuffed in the turkey kind
  • Macaroni and Cheese…Patti Labelle’s recipe, 5 cheeses, butter, whole milk…basically death in a bowl
  • Rolls…sometimes homemade, sometimes storebought
  • Deviled Eggs…my Aunt Karen’s recipe
  • Salad…varies from year to year
  • Carrots or Greens…sometimes neither, greens are disgusting but if the spouse is lucky I’ll make ’em
  • Pumpkin Pie…homemade is great but Sam’s Club kills it
  • Caramel Cake…um, delish
  • Chocolate Eclair Dessert…Cooking Light recipe but mines not “light”
  • Fudge…Grandma Jeannene’s recipe minus the nuts
  • Cheese Ball…recipe compliments of my momma

In light of yesterday’s conversation, I’m considering cutting it down slightly this Thanksgiving.

Thanksgiving 2017:

  • Turkey…pre-fried, just needs reheating
  • Mashed Potatoes…always basic
  • Gravy…from a mix
  • Stuffing…same old
  • Mac-n-Cheese…a non-negotiable
  • Carrots…forget the greens
  • Cornbread, not rolls,…from a box
  • Salad
  • Deviled Eggs…because Kayva could live on them
  • Pumpkin Pie…compliments of Sam’s Club again
  • Cheese Ball…because that’s basically all I eat while I’m cooking
  • And MAYBE Chocolate Eclair Dessert

I wasn’t able to cut the list down by much THIS year but next year might look a little different…it would definitely be nice to spend LESS time cooking and to have MORE downtime to enjoy my family… BUT I really just like to eat so we’ll see.

So tell me, what are your Thanksgiving MUST HAVES?


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  1. Your list is huge! Kirk is making me cut down the list so I won’t kill myself, so this year we will be doing without my sugar cookies. That’s ok because we will have grandma’s fudge. I always eat the pieces without the nuts. I haven’t been able to cut down on setting and decorating the table. It’s my favorite part. This year I am grateful for the new additions…Jade, Topher, and Hadlee (Abby’s boyfriend and daughter). I am really grateful to have Grandma and Grandpa here. This year could have been so different. I am also grateful that you will have both of your granddaughters with you. We will miss you tons. Have a great thanksgiving!

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